Christian Pankhurst

Christian Pankhurst

Founder of Heart iQ. Teaching embodied relational intelligence and the practice of staying open.

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The Gift You Are Trying to Get Rid Of
So much of the healing world is organised around getting rid of things. Fixing what's broken, removing what's wrong with us. But whatever we try to get rid of tends to get stronger. A reflection on trauma, sensitivity, and the difference between erasing your history and alchemising it.
When Healing Becomes a More Sophisticated Shame
There is a shame that hides as ambition, and a shame that hides as healing. The second is sneakier, because it looks like the cure. A reflection on the costume self-awareness can become, why pathologising every part of ourselves is not freedom, and what shadow work actually offers when it stops trying to fix us.
Why the Wrong Relationship Feels So Right
Most of us were never taught the difference between love and intensity. So we chase the feeling, and we assume the rush is the real thing. Often it isn't. A reflection on why the connections that hurt us are sometimes the ones that felt the most right, why intensity bypasses judgment, and why the patterns that catch us are usually ones we're participating in too.
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Love Is What We Came Here For
5–15 Jul 2026 · New Eden, Netherlands
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The Field Festival
18–23 Aug 2026 · Skeppsudden, Sweden
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Love, Relationships & You
1–4 Oct 2026 · New Eden, Netherlands
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Love, Relationships & You
5–8 Nov 2026 · Casa Sagrada, Colorado
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Accelerated Awakening
16–22 Nov 2026 · The Hideaway, Colorado
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Insights to Intimacy
Christian's book on opening your heart and transforming your relationships.