Most of us would likely give an easy ‘yes’ to the question, “Do you want to feel more joy in your life?” However, that question naturally leads to a trickier one: “Then how do you go about having more joy in your life?” Joy is most often something that feels outside of us - something that comes and goes beyond our control. It can feel like a mysterious gift that lands on your doorstep - “I feel really joyful right now, and I don’t know why,” - or remain trapped as a longing - “If only this would happen, I’d be really joyful.” Holding joy in this way isn’t wrong; however, it can prompt your mind to be continuously searching for something that’s out of your reach.
The good news is that there’s so much more to receive in your experience of joy! What’s required is a simple yet substantial upgrade to your expectation of what’s possible, and here’s where your mind might need a bit of re-educating. Let’s start by defining what joy is, which is important if we want to understand how to get more of it. Joy is the pure and simple delight in being alive. So feeling more joy means being able to access more delight in relationship to your aliveness. Rather than needing to get or have more of something, joy is accessed through you opening to it, opening your heart to feel more of the life inside you and connect more with the life around you. Opening to joy is an ongoing practice that we can access through what Heart IQ™ calls The Four Life Force Channels.
The recordings explore this framework through teaching and a personal story about bringing spiritual understanding into an ordinary family relationship.
Four directions of attention
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Vertical Up
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Vertical Down
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Horizontal In
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Horizontal Out

Vertical up
Vertical up is the direction that represents your connection with a higher power, whether you refer to that connection as ‘God,’ ‘Spirit,’ ‘Source,’ or simply your higher-self or intuition. It’s the connection that gives you access to greater clarity, insight, and guidance. When this vertical connection is strong, your sense of safety is magnified. It’s a feeling that no matter what’s going on in your life, you can trust that you’re being taken care of.
Vertical down
Vertical down is the direction that moves your attention into your body. It involves the practice of dropping in with yourself and feeling the truth of who you are at your core. Heart IQ™ refers to this process as ‘embodiment’. This is a practice of being present and open in relationship to your physical body, your emotional body, and your energetic body and allowing the information from all these levels of your intelligence to express through your awareness, words and actions.
In this model, the upward and downward directions invite attention to both meaning and felt experience. Christian uses the term bound energy for the experience of holding back. This is a metaphor in the teaching, rather than an explanation for medical symptoms.
Christian uses juice to describe a felt sense of vitality and expression. He is interested in whether a person can feel more present while remaining grounded, rather than performing an idea of aliveness.
The practice is to keep both dimensions available: awareness and bodily experience. Neither has to eliminate the other. This is something to explore over time, with attention to your own pace.
Horizontal out
Horizontal out is the direction that allows you to share your most authentic and complete truth with others. This Direction of Joy invites you to show your unmasked self to others by courageously expressing your inner reality, allowing others to witness you in your authentic expression. The realness of your expression is reflected when your inner reality and outer expression are congruent. This is the practice of you being you and allowing yourself to be seen wherever you are.
Horizontal in
Horizontal in is the direction that represents your ability to receive from those around you. Surprisingly, it’s one of the most difficult to master since so many of us are conditioned to habitually push away attention, compliments, and admiration. Can you let love in when it’s offered? Can you allow yourself to be moved by another’s sharing and touched by another’s words or deeds? Can you translate and apply meaningful life lessons to your own experience simply by witnessing the experiences of those around you? This Direction of Joy invites you to stand in your full power and feel your own magnificence as it is reflected to you through others.
Together, these four directions offer questions to return to: what helps you feel connected to meaning, what is happening in your body, what do you want to express, and what are you willing to receive?
Recording Notes
Up, Down, In and Out
Christian frames the four channels as the single thing to keep returning to: connecting upward to consciousness, connecting downward to raw life force, letting others in, and daring to express who you really are. He describes the horizontal out channel as the willingness to show up with your "messy bits, the uncontained, the parts that aren't spiritual, that don't have it all together," rather than presenting a managed sliver of yourself. He notes that many spiritual traditions emphasise the vertical connection but often lack this horizontal channel of intimacy, which he says is what makes Heart iQ distinct.
Balancing Vertical and Horizontal Connection
Here Christian shares a personal account from earlier in his own development. After some early personal growth retreats he believed he had "arrived" spiritually and began relating to others from a place of aloof superiority. His mentor sent him to visit his father for the weekend, and Christian describes how his sense of spiritual completeness collapsed the moment his father simply opened the door, leaving him more triggered than he had ever been around him. He uses this to illustrate how a strong vertical connection can become a bypass, an addictive way of avoiding emotion and keeping distance from others, and states that heart intelligence is specifically the balance of vertical and horizontal force, not one at the expense of the other.
The Four Life Force Channels
Vertical Up
Connection to a higher source of guidance and insight, giving a felt sense of being cared for.
Vertical Down
Embodiment, dropping into your physical, emotional and energetic body so your inner truth can be felt and expressed.
Horizontal Out
Sharing your authentic, unmasked truth with others rather than a managed version of yourself.
Horizontal In
Your capacity to receive love, compliments and reflection from the people around you.


