Eye to Eye · A 12-minute documentary

When Couples Do the Work Together

Jen and Ken had moved country, lived through illness and lost some of the communication, fun and joy they used to have. Watch what changed when they stopped trying to solve their relationship only through explanation and brought the work into the body, emotion, play and the wider group.

“A relationship is like a plant. It needs watering for it to flourish.”Jen, featured in the film

Choose where you enter

The film shows the room. The work is available in two forms.

You can begin immediately with the complete training at home, or join Christian and the live group at New Eden in October or Casa Sagrada in November.

Participants practising together during Love, Relationships and You

Attend at home

The Love, Relationships & You Virtual Retreat

The whole four-day training, ready when you are.

This is the live 2023 training in full, with the teaching, guided embodiment, demonstrations and unplanned moments kept in. Watch at your own pace. Pause when a practice begins. Repeat what you need and return to the same place later.

  • The complete four-day 2023 training, exactly as it unfolded
  • 15 separate sessions and 23 hours of teaching, practice and live process work
  • Lifetime replay access inside the Heart iQ Hub and app
  • 30 days with Z, the private AI-powered Heart iQ coach
  • A clear way to take part alone or with a partner at home
$197 USDOne payment · Lifetime replay access

14-day guarantee. Try the complete replay. If it is not right for you, email [email protected] within 14 days of purchase for a full refund.

Attend live in the Netherlands or Colorado

Enter the relationship work with the room around you.

Two live Love, Relationships & You trainings are coming up in 2026.

The live training gives you what a recording cannot: partners, brothers, sisters and a whole group responding to what is happening now. Christian teaches the same relationship maps and works directly with the material that emerges in the room.

  • The complete training runs from Thursday to Sunday
  • Christian teaches across all four days
  • Come on your own or attend with your partner
  • Choose New Eden in the Netherlands or Casa Sagrada in Colorado

New Eden, Netherlands

1 to 4 October 2026New Eden, NetherlandsMinimum contribution €500 per person

Casa Sagrada, Colorado

5 to 8 November 2026Casa Sagrada, ColoradoMinimum contribution $500 per person
Explore the Live LRY Training

Travel and accommodation are additional for both live trainings.

The Casa Sagrada training space in Colorado

You do not have to decide everything today

Start with the replay. Apply the full price towards live LRY.

Whatever you pay for the virtual retreat can be applied as credit towards a live Love, Relationships & You training booked within the next 12 months.