Eye to Eye · A 12-minute documentary
When Couples Do the Work Together
Jen and Ken had moved country, lived through illness and lost some of the communication, fun and joy they used to have. Watch what changed when they stopped trying to solve their relationship only through explanation and brought the work into the body, emotion, play and the wider group.
“A relationship is like a plant. It needs watering for it to flourish.”Jen, featured in the film
Choose where you enter
The film shows the room. The work is available in two forms.
You can begin immediately with the complete training at home, or join Christian and the live group at New Eden in October or Casa Sagrada in November.

Attend at home
The Love, Relationships & You Virtual Retreat
The whole four-day training, ready when you are.
This is the live 2023 training in full, with the teaching, guided embodiment, demonstrations and unplanned moments kept in. Watch at your own pace. Pause when a practice begins. Repeat what you need and return to the same place later.
- The complete four-day 2023 training, exactly as it unfolded
- 15 separate sessions and 23 hours of teaching, practice and live process work
- Lifetime replay access inside the Heart iQ Hub and app
- 30 days with Z, the private AI-powered Heart iQ coach
- A clear way to take part alone or with a partner at home
14-day guarantee. Try the complete replay. If it is not right for you, email [email protected] within 14 days of purchase for a full refund.
Attend live in the Netherlands or Colorado
Enter the relationship work with the room around you.
Two live Love, Relationships & You trainings are coming up in 2026.
The live training gives you what a recording cannot: partners, brothers, sisters and a whole group responding to what is happening now. Christian teaches the same relationship maps and works directly with the material that emerges in the room.
- The complete training runs from Thursday to Sunday
- Christian teaches across all four days
- Come on your own or attend with your partner
- Choose New Eden in the Netherlands or Casa Sagrada in Colorado
Casa Sagrada, Colorado
Travel and accommodation are additional for both live trainings.

You do not have to decide everything today
Start with the replay. Apply the full price towards live LRY.
Whatever you pay for the virtual retreat can be applied as credit towards a live Love, Relationships & You training booked within the next 12 months.