Relationships are the cornerstone of our lives, and they can bring us joy and fulfillment if we nurture them properly. One of the most important aspects of any relationship is having a clear understanding between both parties on what each expects from one another. This is where agreements come in, by making agreements with your partner, you create an environment that encourages trust, respect, and commitment to each other’s needs. When these agreements are made thoughtfully and honestly, it can lead to deeper intimacy and longer-lasting relationships. In this video we’ll explore why making agreements is so essential for fostering strong connections between two people.
Watch the video below to learn some of the essential agreements and then download and print the PDF reference guide.
*I**MPORTANT:*Establishing sacred agreements is best done when you are both in a non-triggered state. If you need help navigating pain body triggers, trauma activation and toxic defence mechanisms, we will be covering pain body agreements as a future lesson in the course.
Download and print this Relationship Agreement summary sheet to review the important steps to building a strong intimate container.
Sacred_Relationship_Agreements.pdf
The video above was filmed at my 2015 Love, Relationships & You retreat in The Netherlands.
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