Love, Relationships
& You

No. Love, Relationships & You is designed for both newcomers and experienced practitioners. Whether this is your first encounter with Heart iQ or you've been on the journey for years, the training meets you exactly where you are. Many people attend this as their entry point into Heart iQ.

Yes. This training is for couples at any stage: thriving and wanting to go deeper, feeling the distance and wanting to reconnect, or rebuilding after something hard. You'll learn a shared language for relating from the heart, and practise it side by side. Heart iQ is a relational training, so the skills strengthen every other relationship in your life too, but here you do the work together, as a couple.

You register once, together: the booking takes both of you in a single flow, and the contribution (from €500/$500) is per person. You'll move through the three days side by side and each have your own experience in the room. Wanting to explore on your own first? The individual version of this retreat is for you.

We want the doorway into this work to be as wide as we can responsibly make it. The minimum contribution for the training is €500/$500 per person, and it includes your full meal package for the three days. Those who have the means are invited to contribute more. Contributions above the minimum directly support keeping the entry point lower for others. Accommodation is the only extra: at New Eden you add your room in the same booking, and in Colorado you arrange your own lodging nearby.

Your meals are included at both locations. For New Eden (Netherlands), you add your accommodation at the venue (single room, shared room, or camping) as part of the same booking. For Casa Sagrada (Colorado), accommodation is not available at the venue. You will need to book a hotel or Airbnb nearby in Loveland. We will send recommendations after registration.

Each day typically runs from morning to evening with breaks for meals and integration. You'll move through a blend of live teaching, personal practice, relational exercises in pairs and small groups, embodiment, and whole-group experiences. The schedule is held with care, intense enough to create real transformation and spacious enough to process and integrate.

Yes! Each training is a complete experience, and attending both would deepen your practice significantly. Each location carries its own energy. If you'd like to attend both, simply register for each one separately.

No. Everything at a Heart iQ event is invitational and consent-based. You choose how far you go, every time. Much of the work happens in personal practice and in pairs, and plenty of participants describe themselves as introverts who were relieved to find they could move at their own pace. Being witnessed is powerful; being pushed is against everything we stand for.

Think seminar-style workshop rather than talking circle. Christian teaches live, then you put it straight into practice: personal practices, relational exercises in pairs and small groups, and experiential sessions with the whole room. This is emotionally deep work, held with clear agreements, a trained facilitation team, and a published ethics & safety framework. It complements therapy well, though it is never a substitute for it.

This is the most common shape a couple arrives in: one of you found the training, the other agreed to come. It works. Nothing is forced, every practice is invitational, and skeptical partners routinely tell us afterwards that the room felt more grounded and practical than they expected. Watch the short film higher up this page to see what it actually looks like. The only real requirement is a willingness to show up.