The Heart iQ Blog
Reflections from Christian on relationships, circle work and the practice of living from the heart.
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Video · 6:38Are you bored in your relationship?
In a live coaching demonstration, Christian helps a woman move from vague boredom in her marriage to a felt, embodied vision of playfulness, sexiness and adventure, then shows how inspired action replaces waiting for a partner to change.
Video · 7:28How To Find Joy, In Any Moment, At Any Time
A five-step practice of feeling, accepting, wanting, asking and receiving, illustrated by one participant’s experience in a recorded workshop.
Video · 1:50The 4 Life Force Channels of Heart iQ
Christian explains Heart iQ's Four Life Force Channels, showing how joy is accessed by opening upward, downward, outward and inward rather than chased as an external reward.
Video · 5:09What is Unconditional Love?
Christian explores unconditional love as room for the full emotional spectrum, using the images of a prism and visual contrast to describe his approach.
Video · 10:25The Essential Masculine & Feminine
An exploration of the essential masculine and feminine as inner qualities present in everyone, using the life force pump, the glass and wine, and light and love analogies from a Heart iQ teaching session.
The Great Polarities of Life
Christian outlines the two core polarities practised in Heart iQ, the vertical union of masculine and feminine within, and the horizontal polarity between people as witness and expression.
The Heart iQ Activation Journey
An exploration of Heart iQ's belief that unworthiness is a shared cultural pattern rather than personal failing, and that reconnecting to life-force energy matters more than fighting the wound.
The Big Vision of Heart iQ
Christian sets out the founding vision of Heart iQ: a community practice for remembering interconnectedness, healing separation between people, and working together rather than alone to shift collective consciousness.
Video · 18:21The Work
Christian explains why Heart iQ works by strengthening a person's sense of goodness rather than analysing wounds, using a chiropractic story and a balloon metaphor to show how focus grows whatever it's aimed at.
Video · 2:59Reactive vs. Proactive Boundaries - A Healthy Way To Use Your Anger
Christian explains the difference between reactive and proactive boundaries, using a live exchange about anger to show how waiting for a line to be crossed makes boundaries impossible to learn.
VideoWhy Anger is Essential for Happiness
Christian explains why anger, when connected to genuine self-worth and a felt sense of value, becomes healthy fuel for boundaries and aliveness rather than destructive rage or repression.
VideoWhy Anger is Essential for Happiness - Part 2
Christian coaches a woman disconnected from her rage, showing how disowned anger can be reclaimed as fuel for self-worth, boundaries and presence rather than suppressed or acted out unconsciously.